Sex Trafficking in Duluth

This post originally contained a video from WCCO-TV that is no longer available.

47 Comments

Jethro

about 14 years ago

I have to say, I was a little skeptical about the legitimacy of the 'Hip Hop Candy Shop' for a while. Kudos to the Duluth administrations who have done such a great job attracting people like that to our city.

HappyHippo

about 14 years ago

Wait, you watched the whole video, and THAT is the comment you came up with?   *facepalm*

UMDEthics

about 14 years ago

This is a hidden but significant problem here in Duluth.  There are thousands of (underage) girls who are sexually exploited in Minnesota each year.  Many are first picked up by pimps in the Duluth area.  

These girls experience a lot of violence and abuse at the hands of pimps and johns.  Duluth is so well known in Las Vegas for sex trafficking of girls that when police see a Minnesota license plate and a girl in the car, they immediately think that it is likely a case of sex trafficking from this area.

As the video points out, there are few services to help these abused girls.  We should dedicate more resources to protect young people from violence and exploitation.    

More information: http://sites.google.com/site/umethics1/ 
http://breakingfree.net/

mac

about 14 years ago

Yeah Jethro, place the blame for people who open places like the Hip Hop Candy Shop on the city administration.  People like that never existed before any of the last few administrations came to town.  This is a completely new phenomena.  

Can you provide some explanation on what administrations did what to attract those people or are you just going to throw out baseless accusations?

Claire

about 14 years ago

This terrible situation is not unique to Duluth. And it's more than simply violence against women by sexual predators, it's going to happen wherever there is great poverty and a lack of opportunity to escape from that poverty by legitimate means. Abject poverty creates a climate where women and girls are going to be much more vulnerable to exploitation. I'm heartened that police and organizations in this area, where we do have pockets of poverty, are addressing the issue of sexual trafficking of women and girls. But it doesn't help matters when Chippie Cravaack and his fellow Republicans vote to cut funds providing educational opportunities for low-income, minority, first-generation-college young people, like TriO. Ironic that this video would be aired by WCCO not long after Cravaack visited Cloquet, near the Fond du Lac reservation mentioned in the video, and told students there that, tough, they'd have to sink or swim on their own, when it comes to escaping poverty through educational opportunities.

B-man

about 14 years ago

I worked at a family housing program for 4 years and was witness to multiple young women caught up in this problem.  These girls were choosing to be engaged with this "business" because of the material things the organizers would give them.  Mostly name brand clothes and phones.  The ladies were brought back to Duluth from Mpls, Chicago, Milwaukee, and Las Vegas, by various law enforcement agencies, and would run away from home within a week to get back into the game.  

As an adult it is easy to see the problem.  These girls did not see the problem and were easily brainwashed by the gifts and the short term gain through being "productive."  Social programs aimed at informing young people of the long term dangers is a good place to start but as usual it comes down to parents and their ability to raise productive young people.

If you have not read up on the "cycle of poverty" you really should.

wildgoose

about 14 years ago

I'm glad people are talking about this. 

It's a complicated problem with lots of possible solutions, I like to start with hope and understanding.  B-man notes that parenting is key, I agree and I've got a dog in that fight, too, helping parents.  Jethro likes to start with blaming the city for "attracting people like that."  To each his own, I guess.  

Sometimes when I'm working with little preschoolers in an "underprivileged" environment I wonder which ones are going to be abused, which ones are going to end up in jail, on drugs or mixed up in sex trafficking. I wonder which ones are going to shatter the trend, create a new set of expectations for their generations.  I think about that but I can't think about it too long or I'd never get anything done.  As someone in the hope and acceptance business I can tell you that we don't get to pick who will be successful, though.  I feel bad for Jethro if he thinks the problem is the administration attracting "people like that."  The Minnesota Prostitution connection has been around for at least 40 years, before half of the city leaders were out of diapers.

Barrett Chase

about 14 years ago

As awful as this story is, I couldn't help but feel distracted by the choice to film women walking down Superior Street in such a way as to make you believe that they are streetwalking prostitutes, as opposed to people going to see a show at Teatro.

wildgoose

about 14 years ago

Yes Barrett, but there are some prostitutes out in the open on Superior and First streets, I don't know about anywhere else. But I agree that the shots they got are probably staged. I also thought it was funny that they used the flashing arrows for the Voyageur Motel in the piece and as far as I know the Voyageur isn't connected with prostitution, I guess the Duluth Family Sauna didn't have a cool enough sign for the producers.

It's just a 5 minute cursory piece and obviously the reporters are playing up the salacious angles for ratings. It is crass, I'll agree with that, but at least someone is telling the story. I can't imagine a local TV station producing a report of even this depth on prostitution/human trafficking.

Paul Lundgren

about 14 years ago



"Staged" might not be a good way to describe this shot. It doesn't look staged, it just looks like a shot of random people on Superior Street. One woman is wearing sexy boots, so we are supposed to infer that she is hooker, I guess.

Maybe it's better to stage such shots, though, to avoid confusing woman who are being exploited with women who are going to The Awesome 80s Prom.



The point, anyway, is that such shots distract from a serious story rather than help illustrate it. But in this case they were kept to a minimum, so it's not a big deal or anything.

UMDEthics

about 14 years ago

Parents are to blame for neglecting kids.  

Husbands are to blame for abusing their wives.

But we are to blame for not then helping the victims.

Most girls who are prostituted are neglected kids who are then manipulated and abused by their pimps.  (Some of the girls might have good parents and just have other problems and bad luck.)  But 86% of prostituted girls are beaten by their pimp, and almost all of these girls have pimps (often called "boyfriends").  It is important to know that the average age a girl in Minnesota is first prostituted is 14 years old.  A 14 year old child.  There are now thousands of prostituted girls from Minnesota.  The pimps are good at control and manipulation of these young girls.  And we can't blame a teenager for being controlled by an abusive adult.

I believe we as a society should protect children from bad parents and protect wives from bad husbands.  We as a society should help people who are victims of bad parents and bad husbands.  Blaming the bad husband and bad parent is good, but not then also taking social action to help the victims is not good.  There will always be an unfortunately high percent of abusive husbands and neglectful parents, and we should structure our laws and institutions around these facts to protect women and children.

And children are especially vulnerable in this whole process that leads to their being prostituted.  It is often easy for the pimps to manipulate and abuse a desperate 14 year old.  These girls need our help.

Last week, our District Attorney Mark Rubin threw his support behind legislation that would stop treating prostituted children as criminals, and instead provide victim services.  This is a good first step.

http://www.duluthnewstribune.com/event/article/id/198163/

bflannagan

about 14 years ago

Words are powerful things, especially when you use the right ones. In this case the proper word is not prostitute (nor whould it ever be the word). The proper word is slave and slavery. So lets start calling it what it really is. Bill

wildgoose

about 14 years ago

I agree Bill, you know what? I was gonna put "prostitute" in quotes but then I decided not to. Generally speaking "slave" is a better term.  Some people like "sex worker" but I don't like that, either.  It implies that the person is able to give consent and treats it as a "job." 

I don't dispute what B-man says about the cycle of sex slavery.  I have seen that, too.  People who get in and out of it.  In the cases like that which I have been exposed to there has been an addiction and also mental illness present, and also PTSD either diagnosed or not.  Like I said it's a complicated problem.

Parenting is important because abuse appears to be an antecedent to sex slavery.  Domestic Violence can be considered a form of neglect although I am not sure if that is the point the UMDEthics was trying to say with "abusive husbands" or not.  There are strategies to help reduce child abuse violence and neglect that would be a good startign point. 

Another one that doesn't get talked about enough is that this sex trade is a business.  People are making money on it, although power is a motivator too, I'm sure.  Why not focus on the people who are paying for sex with the victims?  Why not speak out about it as a community?

UMDEthics

about 14 years ago

The point I am making is that bad parents and bad husbands are responsible for the bad things that they do, but we as a society are also responsible for helping the victims of neglect and abuse.  

We as a society are to blame if the problems persists due to our own inaction.  We can't give all the blame to parents and husbands for the problems that arise from sexual abuse or domestic violence.  We should expect there to be some bad parents and bad husbands (domestic violence and sexual abuse of children is unfortunately too common), and we should set up social mechanisms to protect women and children accordingly.

One of the most basic roles of a government is to protect its citizens from harm and abuse.  In my opinion, our government is not effectively protecting these children from harm and abuse.  We can do much better.  

The legislation that DA Mark Rubin is supporting is a good first step to change government policy to address the problem.

Bad Cat!

about 14 years ago

I'm getting very uncomfortable with comments about blaming "bad/abusive husbands." To me, this statement implies only men are capable of being abusive. Yes, statistically, there are more abusive husbands than abusive wives, but to define an "abusive spouse" as something that only comes bundled with the male gender is ridiculous. Being an abusive spouse is wrong no matter their gender!

Rougement

about 14 years ago

I think it's interesting that the subject of legalization hasn't come up. 

Prostitution isn't going to go away, it doesn't matter what the penalty for the prostitutes or their pimps. So we either keep hearing the terrible stories of violence, addiction, disease and so on and continue to feel awful for the people on the receiving end of this treatment or what?

I guess the alternative is to make it as safe as possible, make sure the money they earn isn't taken by pimps and that help is on hand to combat addiction and health issues. 

To me, that's the moral and practical solution. I also understand there's a mile-wide streak of hypocrisy and religious/political dogma that would make real change pretty much impossible.

UMDEthics

about 14 years ago

Abusive husbands are just one example of a social problem we as a society need to address.  Neglected and abused children are another.  

89% of domestic violence victims are women, but that means 11% are men.  

85% of sex trafficking victims are girls, but that means 15% are boys. That means hundreds of boys in Minnesota (and thousands of girls) are being prostituted and abused.  

We should care about everyone who is abused, male or female.

adam

about 14 years ago

Legalization isn't really the issue when you're dealing with minors.

BeastOfBurden

about 14 years ago

Having previously worked at the bank frequented by Mr. Redd and his harem of skanks, I can attest to the fact that his driver's license stated that he was not from Duluth.  I can attest to the fact that he was collecting welfare benefits in at least two states according to his comments.  And I can guarantee you that the "girls" that hung around with him were extraordinarily willing to exploit he and his "friends" based on their commentary.  There was no "sex slavery," no matter how much you'd like to believe so.  These girls knew exactly what they were doing.  To excuse them for their crimes is to reinforce their belief that they are victims and have done nothing wrong.

I'm all for trying to keep children out of prostitution, but as teenagers they have the knowledge of what is right and wrong.  Claiming that someone is controlling them ignores their very actions and motivations.  We're talking about tough, street-saavy teenagers here, not innocent little kiddos from the 'burbs.  Decisions have consequences, and while physical abuse is never OK, you cannot turn a blind eye to the poor decisions made by these young adults.

As for blaming Cravaack for cutting free college money for the poor: They can get loans and come out of college eyeballs deep in debt like the rest of us.  Last time I checked, parents aren't obligated to pay for their children's college education; every 18-year old adult is essentially broke.  Why should the taxpayers pick up the tab for some and not for others?

Paul Lundgren

about 14 years ago

BeastOfBurden, you should not assume the women you saw at the bank are the full extent of Redd's operation. 

If your only connection to Redd is seeing him at the bank, you can't really know to what extent sex slavery was happening or wasn't.

adam

about 13 years ago

They are called "teenagers" precisely because they do not have a fully developed sense of right and wrong (or consequence, or cause and effect, or prioritization and time management). Their brains have literally not fully developed into adult brains. To argue different ignores science.

Admackbar

about 13 years ago

The world's oldest profession.  I laugh at those of you who think you can do something about it.  Like the War on Terror or the War on Drugs.

wildgoose

about 13 years ago

And this is where the discussion leads, Admackbar's (if that is your real name) comment as in "were never going to be able to solve this problem so why even try."  

Adam is right, teenage brains are not fully developed, why do you think so much of our advertising and media is geared toward satisfying the superficial needs and wants of teenagers?  They are easy to convince and exploit due to scrambled priorities.  Even more scrambled if they grew up in a rough environment, failed in school and/or were abused.  Have you ever had a girlfriend or boyfriend lie to you? Maybe cheat on you? Does that mess with your sense of propriety, confuse you, cause you duress?  Imagine what enduring physical, sexual or emotional abuse/neglect does to a person's sense of propriety before you judge.  I find BeastofBurden's perspective to be valuable but I think I have exactly the opposite opinion, to assume they were open minded, clear-headed, cold-blooded exploiters of their "pimp" and his "friends" is to blame the victim.  

Someone in the video talked about how children are being trafficked or used in child pornography and worse as young as 8 years old.  I believe that is true.  Is that person a victim? 

At what age does it shift from victimization to willful participation? 14? the Candy Shop and another "business" that preceded it in the same building had 15 yr olds available for sex, or so I've heard. Are they victims? What about 18 yr olds, they're adults, right? Isn't that why Baci and others on here are always talking about how grown up and mature and level headed college students are?  

Redd allegedly said he used middle school dances to recruit kids per the video, were those kids victims? I mean, they willingly went to the dance, right?

wildgoose

about 13 years ago

One more thing about BeastofBurden is stuck in my craw. If you witnessed this "army of skanks" and you heard about the welfare fraud, did you report it?  I'm sure your bank had some rules about confidentiality but this isn't Switzerland and if you witness a child or vulnerable adult who you even suspect of being abused or exploited then it is proper to report what you see to Social Services.  You can do it anonymously.  And if you are a mandatory reporter then state law says that you MUST report it.  

Me? I actually did think the hip hop candy shop was a candy store, but I figured they probably also sold drugs so I never had reason to pop in.  I also had no clue about the barber shop that was in the same building before that.  I even got my hair cut there, a few times, kinda wondered why plain clothes police came in after me ... until it got busted.  Naive, I know.  I know a thing or two about how the world works but I miss a lot.

Chris

about 13 years ago

Is there a record of john or pimp arrests in Duluth in the last few years?

Admackbar

about 13 years ago

No, Wildgoose (not your real name), Admackbar is not my real name.  It is derived from a character in a little movie in the '80's called "Return of the Jedi."  Perhaps you've heard of it.

You seem like a nice person but your myriad Socratic questions do nothing to further debate (are you listening, UMDEThics?) - in fact they just obscure the issues.  To think you can change billions of years of evolutionary history is arrogant.  Guys are going to be horny.  They ain't gettin' any.  They get frustrated.  They pay for sex.  B-man, Rougement and Adam have the only pertinent comments in the discussion of prostitution so far.  "Cycle of Poverty/Abuse" (which will never be broken due to humanity's insatiable lust and greed) "Legalisation" (the only (partial) solution) and "what to do about minors" (there will always be deviants unfortunately).

You might be able to influence a few people around you in your life, but you ain't gonna stop prostitution in a world of 7 billion people.  Sweeping statements like: "It's a complicated problem with lots of possible solutions" are completely useless.  

And UMDEthics, "We as a society" can't do shit, but individuals can.

Lojasmo

about 13 years ago

Beast:  teens are unable to give consent.  Teens are not "young adults," they are adolescent children.

wildgoose

about 13 years ago

Admackbar. Sorry, sarcasm, I know the character and the movie well, I was just messing with you. And you seem like a fairly reasonable character, too.  I loved "Jedi" as a kid, probably because the story came full circle, the heroes all matured in their way, Luke succeeded in becoming a Jedi, Anakin turned against evil, and the good folks won the day.  And there was a great party at the end (although slightly awkward with the whole Luke/Leia siblings realizing that they kissed each other thing).  

As for the questions, yes they are helpful.  The point is consciousness raising, getting people to really think for themselves about what is happening, about what is right, wrong and possibly to motivate them to the kind of individual action that is likely to be successful, like you mention.  In my case I believe that prevention is key, that means starting people young with affirmation, love, discipline and self-control, parents are the key to this but they need the support of educators, community members, and civil society.

As for "evolutionary history," I reject that.  The idea that men have urges so we need to have prostitutions, or in this case teenage sex slaves to satisfy them is simply absurd.  Millions (or billions) of men in this world have sexual urges, should we all be using sex slaves to satisfy our needs?  What kind of a sick dystopia would that be?  Some people have argued that Africans were bound to be enslaved by Europeans due to evolutionary history. People have argued that women are not designed to lead, own property or be a part of the political process due to evolutionary history.  Some people argue that men don't know how to be nurturing fathers due to evolutionary history.   It's the same argument and it is wrong every time.  It's abusing and misintepreting science to support oppression, alientation and disenfranchisement.

Maybe we will never solve the problem entirely but that doesn't mean we need to shrug our shoulders in apathy and let it go.

Bad Cat!

about 13 years ago

All societal and moral issues aside, if competent adults choose to have sex with other competent adults choose to pay them for said sex, it is (in my opinion) not an issue that is causing harm. I know that others may not agree with me, but I consider myself a pro-sex feminist and I don't believe in the criminalization of sex-acts between consenting adults.

However, that being said, sex-work does not occur in a vacuum (if it did, I would imagine it would be a lot like the sex-scene in Barbarella...). But anyway, back to my easily distractible point, most of the people who are in sex-work are not educated consenting adults who are free from emotional issues & trauma who are choosing that line of work without outside influence.  A large majority of sex-workers have a background of sexual/physical/mental abuse, substance-abuse issues, mental health issues, learning-development issues, and have a lack of education and work skills.

Many fall into the trade through coercion of some type, others from threats, kidnapping, or imprisonment. They are not choosing sex-work as a "career"; they are exchanging sex for money that can provide drugs, alcohol, protection, housing, relationships, or financial support for family. Even if they are "willing" to do sex-work, they are probably choosing it not out of educated consent, but because of coercion in combination with substance-abuse issues, emotional/mental-health issues, abusive relationships, lack of education/job skills, or severe financial hardship.

I think everyone can agree that someone being forced into sex-work (sex-slavery) is wrong. I think everyone can also agree that sex-work by children (under 13) and  is also wrong. If you do not agree, please pack your bags and move the fuck out of my city - I don't want you here.

Other groups in sex-work are more of grey-area issue for some who think that people knowingly "chose" sex-work. Consider these situations:

An adult woman who is addicted to meth. Her addiction has caused her to sell everything she owns. Her dealer says she can sell her body in exchange for drugs.

A teenage boy who was kicked out of his home after his parents find out he is gay. He doesn't have any money or a place to live. An older man offers him housing in exchange for sex. 

An adult woman who has a very low IQ. She reads and comprehends only at a grade-school level, but was not recognized as such and received no special-education services. A man in her neighborhood offers her money in exchange for sex, which she accepts thinking it sounds fun. 

A teenage girl who has been repeatedly raped by her step-father since she was a young girl. She has never had a healthy relationship with a man and doesn't think of her sexuality as something that is in her control. She figures if she doesn't have the right to refuse sex, she might as well get money in exchange for it.

An adult woman in a dysfunctional relationship with an abusive and controlling man. She does not realize that her relationship is harmful and fulfills all of his requests. He says he would like her to make money having sex with other men.

A teenage girl who idolizes her older sister and imitates her in every way. Her sister is sexy, fashionable, and always has lots of men around her. Her sister says she could have lots of money and nice clothes just like her, all she has to do is go on dates with men.

An adult woman who dropped out of high school. She has a poor-paying job, no medical insurance, and a child who has a medical condition that requires expensive medications. She does not have the education or skills to get a job that would pay her the money she needs.

A teenage girl who grew up in poverty. She has never owned any toys or books, wears used clothing, and goes to bed hungry many nights. The boys in her neighborhood offer her money and the things she could never have in exchange for sex.

An adult woman who agrees to go out to an ore boat and have sex with one man in exchange for money. When she arrives, they tell her she can't leave until she has sex with several other men on the boat.
A teenage girl who has a low self-esteem is with her first boyfriend. He asks her to have sex with other men in exchange for money and says he will break up with her if she refuses.

An adult woman who is offered a job on the condition that she has sex with her boss. She has been out of work for a long time and has no other job offers.

So how many are comfortable saying that these people listed had willingly and knowingly chosen to have sex in exchange for money? That they had the education, opportunity, and financial stability to provide other options? That they were able to identify the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships? The situations I listed are not "few and far between" - this is the reality for many of the people who have sex in exchange for money.

Most of the people here on PDD probably have at least an average job, have an adequate education, have healthy relationships in a stable home, and enough opportunity to choose to do something other than sex-work. How many of those things would you have to loose before you would consider sex-work to be a viable option? Remove your home, your education, your mental health, your sobriety. Take them away one by one until you have no other options than having sex with strangers. Could you really consider that a "choice"?

c-freak

about 13 years ago

Snap! Bad Cat you rock.

stephaniejt

about 13 years ago

Prostitution/sexual slavery/sex workers "willing" or not is violence against women. Period.

It is also violence against the boys/men who are exploited sexually.

wildgoose

about 13 years ago

When I was reading through Badcat! list of scenarios I could think of several actual situations where names and faces came to mind.  They are very realistic.  These are examples of why I said "it's complicated."  Because it is.  

I just remembered this now. A couple of days ago I ran into a young woman who used to "work the streets."  She was off the streets, healthier and trying to move forward in life.  I've seen her do this before and I don't know if it will last, actually.  But it was really nice seeing her face sort of glow with life and hope.  I almost didn't recognize her.  I will never agree that there is nothing that can be done to end the "oldest profession" because I've encountered people like that young woman.  I know there are multiple paths out of the life.  

The examples were realistic and although I didn't agree with everything Badcat! said but I loved this about sexually exploited children:  "If you do not agree, please pack your bags and move the f*ck out of my city - I don't want you here."

Claire

about 13 years ago

Bad Cat! said it all, and C-Freak is right, Bad Cat rocks. Don't blame the victim, and don't turn your face from it, for some simplistic reason like "guys get horny," so they need to sexually exploit women and children. It's never ok.

Bad Cat!

about 13 years ago

c-freak said I rocked! This will be the closest I ever come to being a rock star...

BeastOfBurden

about 13 years ago

Absolutely ludicrous, BadCat.  There are always options.  Always.  If a person turns to prostitution to make ends meet, their moral fiber is seriously lacking.  We have a basic welfare system that provides the bare essentials for any person, regardless of age or status. While I have major issues with the overall and long-term implementation of these programs, I recognize their necessity as a safety net. This safety net is the perfect example of why prostitution isn't a viable "option." If welfare is more humiliating than prostitution, we have much bigger problems.

Actions have consequences.  People need to be accountable for their actions.  If a person chooses to engage in sexual activity in exchange for money, they are making a very, very poor decision and will need to suffer the consequences -- which should include criminal charges.  This may make me sound crass and unfeeling, but I firmly believe that most anyone over the age of thirteen knows full well that trading sex for money, favors or other material goods is wrong.  Think back to the first time you heard of prostitution: What was your first reaction?  I know mine wasn't "Gee, that doesn't seem so bad" or "That could be a good means of living."  Does this mean I support child prostitution?  Of course not.  What I am stating is that teenagers, regardless of brain development, have the ability to decipher right from wrong.  If this "brain development" argument holds water, then why allow teens to seek abortions on their own?  Why allow teens to drive?  Why is eighteen the age of majority when most comprehensive studies suggest that brain development is not complete until a person's early 20s?  Teens know the difference between right and wrong, bottom line.  An eight year old?  Yeah, probably not.  A 14 year old?  They absolutely know the difference.

If our society has devolved to the point where we have a major problem with people -- including teens -- basing their entire self-worth on material goods or money, and in turn becoming willing participants in the selling of their bodies in the pursuit of those material possessions, to hell with prostitution, child or otherwise -- we have a much, MUCH larger problem on our hands: The devaluation of personal character, the degradation of sound moral values and the total loss of human dignity.

@wildgoose: I've contacted Social Security and St. Louis County numerous times about welfare fraud.  They require proof to prosecute.  Banks require subpoenas to release bank records.  One won't move without the other's prodding.  Catch 22, see?  Yet another way the system is broken.  As for "mandatory reporter" ... I'm not one.  I can only go off of what they're talking about, and that happened to be getting money, cell phones and drugs from men.  I didn't know who the johns were, nor did I know they were sleeping with adults.  Turning in teens for talking about their sex lives in public doesn't strike me as a productive use of my time.

As far as Mr. Redd is concerned: He wouldn't have been here if there were limitations on residency with regards to welfare programs.  There's no excuse for his actions; they were and are deplorable and I am glad he's going away for a long, long time.  That said, you cannot excuse the bureaucracy for rolling the red carpet of public assistance for him.

Bad Cat!

about 13 years ago

The first time I heard of prostitution was on a family vacation driving through a skeevy part of some town. My brother said "Look - hookers!" and I looked around expecting that "hookers" were people with hooks on their hands (ie. pirates).

And Beast, I was going to respond to your points in an analytical manner, but I realized I can just sum it up: you seem like an uncaring jerk.

If you want to talk about people's lack of moral fiber, I would consider you in that group as well. I believe moral fiber includes the ability to have compassion or sympathy for those who are worse off than you.

Have you ever read the Aesop's Fable "The Ant and the Grasshopper"? Sure the ants hard work provided him the ability to eat during the winter, but all of his neighbors, family, and friends thought he was a huge asshole for letting the grasshopper die of starvation.

zra

about 13 years ago

Beast knows all this because he's an unwed below poverty level addict and single mother living in an inner city ghetto?

sorry sorry...i'm trying to be a kinder gentler asshole.



It doesn't matter how many options you give someone to help them out of the situation they're in, there will always be those who fall between the cracks, Beast. Welfare as it sits is being defunded and gutted by people who think exactly as you do, and is likely to be a shadow of its former self if its demise is allowed to continue and has never been a one size fix all program.

rollergirl

about 13 years ago

The part of the brain that fully comprehends consequences for actions is not fully developed until a person is in their mid 20s.

Children who were not raised in an environment where morals and ethics were taught do not have the same morals and ethics as you or me.  What we may find repulsive, may be just the way life works for them.

Blaming a 14 year old for his or her part in prostitution is wrong.  They are exploited minors.  The men who pay for sex are the problem.  Where is their moral fiber?

Paul Lundgren

about 13 years ago

From the Associated Press: 

Minnesota lawmakers are considering a bill that would ensure young people engaging in prostitution are treated as victims — not criminals. Prosecutors in the Twin Cities and Duluth areas have already thrown support behind the so-called "safe harbor" law, saying the new approach will get kids the treatment they need and keep them safe.

'Safe harbors' legislation would treat children who are sold for sex as victims, not criminals

Claire

about 13 years ago

About time. Thanks for pointing that out, Paul.

Paul Lundgren

about 13 years ago

Crowds of men stood before the state capital Saturday afternoon in the cold and rain, joining the fight against human trafficking.

A followup story from WCCO: 

BeastOfBurden

about 13 years ago

Oh, I have plenty of compassion and empathy for people who are struck by tragedy, misfortune or plain ol' bad luck.  I don't have compassion or empathy for people who make a conscious decision to do something illegal and personally destructive, and continue to make that decision over, and over, and over again.  Of course, now we're going to pass a law that portrays every teen prostitute as a victim.  Good job of creating a massive, sweeping generalization, folks.  Way to embolden another generation of carefree, irresponsible, co-dependent crybabies ... a generation that is never at fault for its actions.

@rollergirl: Everyone--save a few random knuckleheads--knows by age 13 that prostitution is wrong on several different levels.  I don't care where you grew up.

UMDEthics

about 13 years ago

Thanks to Paul, BadCat, and others for the posts and information.  The Star Tribune article (that Paul linked 4 posts above) illustrates the lives of about 90% of the underage girls who are prostituted.  Studies (which I linked above) give good evidence that the trafficked girl's experience in the Star Tribune is typical, since about 86% of these young girls are regularly beaten by pimps.  

It is fear and violence (among other things) that keeps them under the control of the pimps.  The vast majority of prostituted girls have pimps and are controlled with violence, fear, and manipulation.  Thus, I find it extremely difficult to blame a 13 year old who is being beaten and prostituted into having sex with 10-15 guys a day (10-15 is an average day for many).  There may be some exceptions to this, but the exceptions are not common. Most all the prostituted young girls have pimps, and most all pimps beat them.

Almost none of these girls keep any of the money.  Usually all the money goes to the pimps, who might give her a burger and maybe an occasional outfit in return.  These girls are almost never making any money for themselves.  

The New York Times did a series on this issue, and how the pimps control the young girls.

When No One's Looking, Part 2
 
What About American Girls Sold on the Streets?

If you have 20 minutes, you might also want to listen to these December 2010 NPR interviews of trafficked girls who are typical examples of this kind of exploitation and violence.

NPR Part 1 (12 minutes)

NPR Part II (8 minutes)

Makoons

about 13 years ago

I have been working at a women's domestic violence shelter in Duluth for the past 4 years. We recently were approved by our funders to open our doors to victims of trafficking and to prostitutes. 

I have met trafficking victims and I have met prostitutes who willingly thrust themselves into "the life." Trafficking victims many times would not describe themselves as such and believe themselves to have willingly accepted their lifestyle. They first meet their "pimp" (which is not what they usually call this person) a lot of the time he will wine and dine them, buy them expensive gifts, tell them they are beautiful and loved and promise to give them the world. When you are an underage, naive girl from a home of little means no matter how caring the parents, this sort of treatment is alluring and makes you feel special. This guy is your white knight come to save you. Then, maybe after a few weeks or a couple months, the guy says "baby...you know I love you...but I'd love you so much more if you'd just sleep with my friend. Then you could help make money and I could buy you more gifts and we'd be so happy together." Then it becomes more men, and more men, and the pimp begins to be abusive. You are brainwashed into thinking this is normal, this is love, and the pimp manipulates you based upon your feelings for him.

We actually had such a scenario happen to one grown woman staying at our shelter. If any of you remember Leroy's Sweet Shop (I think it was Leroy) it was actually in the same building as the infamous Hip-Hop candy shop and has recently boarded itself up and closed down. Everyone in the neighborhood knew what "Leroy" really sold. When you walked into his "shop" there was maybe a Snickers and a Soda...but there were also mattresses all over the floor. One of Leroy's friends began courting a woman at our shelter who had just escaped a long-term abusive relationship and came all the way from the southern states, didn't know a single person and was openly friendly to all she met. He started taking her on dates and telling her immediately that he loved her. When she finally opened up to staff about her new relationship we immediately told her what was going on. She was shocked and felt violated, but had never even considered this as a possibility.

This kind of coercion can happen to people of all ages and it's very closed-minded to think that everyone, even the adults, choose to become a prostitute. As I said, I have met women who chose to get into "the life," but even they didn't do it just because they wanted the money, but because they didn't value themselves. Because they had been abused as children, or raped as young girls, and didn't learn to protect themselves. And when they did do it, they numbed themselves with drugs to forget about it. Many pimps will force their victims to stay drugged up so they are more compliant with their johns. 

Prostitution and trafficking is a complicated issue. You cannot draw a line, even age-wise, and call it a crime or bad decision making. Each person is different, their reasons are different, and their actions are a symptom of another problem. Do I think willing sex-workers who choose to do this for "morally bankrupt" reasons do exist? Sure. There are many clean, safe facilities in Nevada that prove this point. I personally wouldn't have a problem with legalization ... a person has the right to choose what they do with their body even if I don't agree with it. But this is an entirely different issue.

maggie kazel

about 13 years ago

Thank you for these remarks Clare whoever you are ... you have hit it right on the spot - cutting TRIO and allowing Hip Hop Shop ... says too much

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